There is a difficult thing to be taught and that, so maybe it is increasingly rare: the elegance of behavior.
It is a gift that goes far beyond the correct use of cutlery and it covers much more than say a simple thank you.
It is the elegance that accompanies us from early morning until bedtime, which manifests itself in the most prosaic, when no party or any photographers around.
It is an elegantly relieved.
You can detect it in people who praise more than criticize, in listening more than talking. And when they talk, they pass away from the gossip of small evils amplified word of mouth.
You can detect it in people who do not use a superior tone of voice when addressing attendants, people who avoid subjects embarrassing because they take pleasure in humiliating others.
You can detect it in people off.
Elegant is the one who shows interest in issues that knows, is the giver out of holidays, and upon receiving a call, the secretary does not recommend that you ask before you're talking and then sends word that is or is not.
Giving flowers is always elegant.
It is elegant you do something for someone and that someone would never know it ...
It's classy not change your style just to suit others.
It is very fashionable not to mention money in informal chats.
The silence is elegant, in front of a rejection.
Surname, nosed jewelry and do not replace the elegance of the gesture.
There is no book that teaches one to take a generous view of the world.
It is elegant kindness ...
Attitudes gentle, speak a thousand images.
Open the door to someone ... is very elegant.
Giving someone the place to sit ... is very elegant.
Smiling is always very elegant and makes a darn good for the soul ...
Eye contact when talking is essentially elegant.
You can try to capture this delicacy by observation,
But try to imitate it is unproductive.
The solution is to develop the art of living, which is independent of social status: just ask licencinha Alley Oop to our side, who thinks "with friend does not have to have these frills."
Education rusts from disuse.
E, detail: there is freshness.